Birching 101

Following my recent post about birching I have received a number of questions. Here you can find collective answer to them.

 

Birch needs to be made fresh to be supple for use, but also to avoid unnecessary cuts of the skin. When it dries out it gets hard and brittle. It shreds to pieces when used too quickly and is likely to cut.

That means I mostly offer it in North East where such trees can be easily found (not in Central London where if a birch is growing it has no low branches as they have been cut away for the buses or is a part of one of the small parks). I can use it in London if I have a session with you during my first 2 days down there.

Birches (like the one here) don’t really bruise as they are too light. They do however leave a lot of marks on the surface. If you are an experienced player, those marks will most likely disappear quite quickly. If you are not very experienced or know to mark easily from canes (the famous tramlines) that it is likely the marks will persist for quite some time. 3-4 weeks is *NOT* uncommon.

How late in the season birches can be used depends on the weather. They have to be picked from a green tree that still has *some* leaves left. I remember a birch being successfully used as late as December, but that was much further south. Probably not a feasible expectation in North East.

How does it feel? Some say like being stung by dozens of bees at once. I think that’s a great exaggeration but certainly it is an intense sensation of that sort. (Certainly doesn’t swell like a bee sting does!)

To make a birch to use on you I will need a notice so I can to make it. The thing doesn’t make itself. Same day or next day appointments *HIGHLY* unlikely.

 

I might be updating this post as I receive more questions about birches.

Play Fantasy – Reformatory Birching

I have recently had an interesting session that included a medium size birch I made.

A strict reformatory setting…A school boy found himself sent from his previous school where they couldn’t cope with him any more. Bad behaviour, bullying, smoking, you name it. Good old-fashioned school discipline wasn’t enough to keep him in line so stricter measures were required.

The birch perfectly served its purpose.

I’m pretty sure we have another couple of months, at least, for the birches to be safely useable and green.

Are you brave enough?

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For more practical information:

I would judge the severity of the birch in the photo above as medium to perhaps hard. It is however a completely different sensation, unachievable with any other implement. It’s the intensity, not the severity that truly counts with a birch. You will find the intense sensation building up and up and up…

PS. The birch has to be made fresh and can be used *only* once so need to be agreed on beforehand.

 

Fixing up the schoolroom!

Although I only have one room in my North East venue it is big enough to arrange a themed corner.

I have separated one corner area for a schoolroom to give it a better look.

I have just bought a blackboard and will be adding few more authentic items like maps, books etc. to allow for more authentic school sessions.

I will post photos once it’s all sorted out!

In the meantime of course the space is still useable for sessions and punishment of all the naughty boys that so far escaped the punishment!

Play Fantasy – Interrogation

 

A bit delayed but here it comes!

This month’s best session fantasy is more a group of fantasies rather than a specific one.

May seemed to be a little bit of a ‘hmmm…interrogation sounds intriguing’ kind of month.

 

I had a number of people inquiring about possible interrogations sessions. Some of you seem to believe in certain myths surrounding the whole subject that seems to be taking potential enjoyment away from you. So here goes few simple demystifying facts.

 

  • Interrogation sessions do NOT have to be severe. Like everything in the CP and BDSM world it can be tailor-made to suit your level of play.
  • It can be either pure CP or BDSM or mix of both.
  • It can have a very deep roleplay with complex story and background or be as simple in nature as any other roleplay.
  • It can be a official, semi-official or a very unofficial setting

 

But what is even more important is that I heard a number of people being put of the idea because they believe the session will end when they ‘give up the information’.

I don’t know how other mistresses run their sessions and it is none of my business. I, personally, see no reason why a session should instantly end once the person being interrogated ‘gives up the information’. There are infinite ways of proceeding once that happened. Infinite.

I hope to shortly post few interrogation session ideas for some inspiration as well as some more practical information if you are interested that will hopefully be useful…

 

 

Back to blogging

Life has been extremely busy over the last couple of months but I hope I will have more time to take care of my website and blog over the few weeks.

I’m planning to:

  • go back to blog more regularly – if i can keep up to date I was hoping to including some news about local (North East / North) events and similar
  • sort the testimonial page – will be adding new testimonials!! If you asked in the past wishing to provide one now is you chance as i will be doing the update shortly after I’m back from London. Just email me with it during the next week or so!
  • finally changing and expanding on the relaxation page that has been postponed since Christmas!

Roleplays and Session Ideas AKA Play Fantasy

My recent JP with a Twist post proved to be very popular.

I have received a lot emails expressing interests. Some of you enthusiastically suggested modification and improvement to the game to suit you interests. Some of you turned it into a more strict and severe option while others made it into more of a BDSM game adding body parts.

And I bet, some of you  took a dice and rolled it get the idea of your chances.

I look forward to trying out all those varieties of the JP with a twist game over the next few week.

Thinking how that post sparkled interests and creativity I have decided to make it a semi-regular feature called Play Fantasy. On here, I will be choosing the best creative and exciting roleplay or session idea that I heard and/or had fun turning into reality.

100% anonymoulsy (and without ANY presonal details whatsoever) of course so no need to worry!

Gallery and photos

I have re-arranged the gallery page today. I have separated the gallery page into Mistress Gallery, Newcastle Venue Gallery and London Venue Gallery for easier browsing – all accessible from the Main Gallery Page. Hope its easier to navigate now and also, for those with slower connections, should load faster now when its divided.

Also added few photos for more variety (more in Mistress Gallery):

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JP with a TWIST

While in London earlier this month, I have been introduced to an interesting idea for a judicial punishment like scenario that I refer to as ‘JP with a twist’.

The essence of judicial punishment is to leave the recipient out of control, with a fixed amount of stroked to be endured. For those who like to gamble and enjoy the idea of an unknown – here’s the challenge!

 

In simple terms the JP with a twist works like this:

Imagine six different implements. Let’s say a strap, a tawse, a junior cane, a senior cane, a hairbrush and a crop, each with a number from 1 to 6.

A roll of a dice determines the implement.

The number of strokes gets determined by a roll of a dice (or a card). It can be doubled or tripled.

The only fixed and pre-determined thing is how many rounds (implements and number of strokes rolls) are carried out before the end of the twisted punishment. 5? 10? 20? 50?

It might not have a chilling seriousness of a cold and well paced judicial punishment, but it does leave you completely at a mercy of luck (or should I say un-luck) as I roll the dice

 

Any brave takers?