Spreader bar.

And finally here are some photos of the spreader bar that I had in use for the last few weeks.


The new spreader bar works well both with the torture chair as well as with the hooks in the ceiling to keep your legs restraint and well apart.

In fact it works perfectly, leaving you just enough room to wriggle but no chance of getting free until the time is right. It can be used for punishment scenarios as well as for more sensual play and tie and tease.

The spreader bar is adjustable, it has 6 different rings (3 on each side) to allow me to secure your legs at different widths apart depending on what is needed and possible.


End of 2014 testimonial by a first timer

Despite being well established both in North East and London I regularly see new clients who afters years spend fantasising decided to make their step with me. It is one of the most rewording experience to introduce and eager and enthusiastic soul to the CP and BDSM world. But I also know it can be an absolutely nerve racking experience for you.

So, here is a very open testimonial written by someone I have seen just before Christmas:


I met Miss Kami for the first time yesterday, and i am still in awe of her, and elated after a truly fantastic experience. I won’t go into what Miss Kami did to me, as i will let you find out, and experience her domination of you for yourself.

I am in my early 40s, and have toyed with the idea of meeting a Mistress for a session for a few years now, something has been inside me beckoning me, and i have come close to booking a session a couple of times, but ended up bottling it. In the end, i thought, i am not getting any younger, we don’t know how long we have on this Earth, and i really want to explore this side of my sexuality. I decided to buy a birthday present for myself, and thus contacted Miss Kami.

I was very anxious ahead of the session, but my fears faded quite quickly, firstly, Miss Kami operates from a discreet location in a nice area, and when i met Miss Kami, what can i say but wow. She is a very attractive lady, has a great figure and pretty face, Miss Kami is also very friendly and easy to talk to (when out of session), and this made me relax quiet quickly, we started in a kind of therapist type of discussion talking about what kind of things i would like to do, i was looking back fairy vague, even described myself as a ‘blank canvas’ there is no one thing i have fantasised about, for me this has been an itch that needed scratching, so i left myself open to Miss Kami’s control, though Miss did say if something wasn’t working for me, just to say, as she didn’t want me to spend time going off at a tangent if something wasn’t working for me (though it all did, though some bits i found more exciting and now want to explore further).

Afterwards, we had a chat, and again, it was really nice to meet such an intelligent, charming and attractive lady. When i left Miss Kami’s premises i was truly elated, i felt released, and so glad i had made the decision to try this, and try it with Miss Kami, if anyone out there is like i was, (toying with the idea of this), then stop wasting your time and do it, i can’t recommend her enough, i was buzzing afterwards.

I will be back as soon as i get a chance, but in the meantime, thank you for such an unforgettable experience.

Dave (Dec 2014)

Birching 101

Following my recent post about birching I have received a number of questions. Here you can find collective answer to them.


Birch needs to be made fresh to be supple for use, but also to avoid unnecessary cuts of the skin. When it dries out it gets hard and brittle. It shreds to pieces when used too quickly and is likely to cut.

That means I mostly offer it in North East where such trees can be easily found (not in Central London where if a birch is growing it has no low branches as they have been cut away for the buses or is a part of one of the small parks). I can use it in London if I have a session with you during my first 2 days down there.

Birches (like the one here) don’t really bruise as they are too light. They do however leave a lot of marks on the surface. If you are an experienced player, those marks will most likely disappear quite quickly. If you are not very experienced or know to mark easily from canes (the famous tramlines) that it is likely the marks will persist for quite some time. 3-4 weeks is *NOT* uncommon.

How late in the season birches can be used depends on the weather. They have to be picked from a green tree that still has *some* leaves left. I remember a birch being successfully used as late as December, but that was much further south. Probably not a feasible expectation in North East.

How does it feel? Some say like being stung by dozens of bees at once. I think that’s a great exaggeration but certainly it is an intense sensation of that sort. (Certainly doesn’t swell like a bee sting does!)

To make a birch to use on you I will need a notice so I can to make it. The thing doesn’t make itself. Same day or next day appointments *HIGHLY* unlikely.


I might be updating this post as I receive more questions about birches.

Fixing up the schoolroom!

Although I only have one room in my North East venue it is big enough to arrange a themed corner.

I have separated one corner area for a schoolroom to give it a better look.

I have just bought a blackboard and will be adding few more authentic items like maps, books etc. to allow for more authentic school sessions.

I will post photos once it’s all sorted out!

In the meantime of course the space is still useable for sessions and punishment of all the naughty boys that so far escaped the punishment!

North East Venue


Change of plans! I have decided to get my own place!

If everything goes well I will be collecting keys when I’m back from London on Monday, 20th January.  Give it a week for some redecorations and I’m planning to start offering sessions again from 27th January!

Location is pretty good and the place seems to have been made for me.

Easy access by public transport (5min walk from metro) and by car from A1 and A19.


Please note, I won’t take any firm bookings for sessions until I have the keys in my hand, but you are welcome email me now to express interest.


More details, location and pics shortly.

Good news!


Looks like I will be offering sessions in Newcastle again shortly!

I found a really good place for session in the Newcastle area – very well maintained, clean, variety of suitable furniture and easy access both on public transport and by car.

I should be back properly once I’m back from London (after 20th January).

More details to follow shortly!


North East NEWS

Hi Guys,


Some bad news to all the CP and fetish craving guys who were thinking of coming for a session in Newcastle during the next few weeks.

Unfortunately, just before the Christmas, due to unexpected circumstances, I have lost the use of the place I used to hire for sessions in Newcastle.

With the festive period now over I have started looking for a new place from which I can session. Until then, unfortunately, I’m unable to offer sessions in Newcastle area. Hopefully, I should have the situation rectified within few weeks at the latest.

I’m sorry I wont be able to see you until this is sorted.


In the meantime – you can either keep an eye on my website (which will be updated with the necessary details as soon as I find a place for hire) or send me an email and I will drop you a line once I’m ready to session again.


If you know of a place that might be suitable for hire feel free to drop me a line. Worst come worst I will be setting my own place – that might take more time, but one way or another I will be back on the map as soon as possible!


!!! My London trips remain  UNINTERRUPTED for the time being !!!

I will be down South 13th – 18th January (possibly staying over until 19th) as usual catering for a wide variety of sessions and roleplays from a venue fully devoted to CP and BDSM pains and pleasures.


I’m now taking bookings so look forward from hearing from you.