Category: Corporal Punishment

Happy New Year!

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Happy New Year to you all!

I hope you had a lovely festive season!

Life has been all over the place for most of us in the last 3 years. I look forward to a bit more normality, or more correctly to building the new normal.

If you have any unfulfilled, lingering fantasies, perhaps this is the year to take the brave step forward and out of your comfort zone. Or maybe this year is about revisting your old-time favourites, enjoying the comfort of well-known sensations.

Whichever one you’re after, perhaps both at different times, I look forward to fascilitating your exploration.

If you’re new to this website, please have a read through the services I offer and other useful infomation before contacting me. As a new, to me, client, you will have to pay a deposit for your first session.

The cost of life is rising, making it harder and harder to afford the fun things in life we like to do. I have started offering sessions over 10 years ago and in all that time I have only lifted my rates once, back in 2017. I am way overdue needing to increase my rates but I will NOT be doing it at this point. I will rethink this in 6 months time, but for now my rates remain the same. While I know it does not help much in the grand scheme of things, I intend to remain as affordable, allowing you to experience the sessions whenever possible, for as long as I can.

Here’s a toast to new explorations, fun, fulfilment, excitement and satisfaction!!

New clients

Posted on by Miss Kami

 

Hello and welcome!

 

Whether you are an experience player or new to domination sessions, I’m yet again offering sessions to new clients both in London and The North East!

 

DEPOSITS:

You will have to pay a deposit to book your first session with me. No deposits will be reuqired for return visits.

I use PayPal (alternative arrangements can be made if needed – Amazon or cash). The transaction will display on your statement as R2348.

The deposit is £50/1h, £60/90min and £80/2h.

Please do NOT pay until asked to do so.

 

How will it work?

  • Have a look at my website, the services I offer etc.
  • Drop me an email, briefly explaining your interests (I need this to know which room to book but don’t worry if you’re not sure 100% what you want to do, we can discuss that on the day) and what days/times you would like to book your session for
  • Once we have found a mutually agreeable time for your session, I will then ask you to pay the deposit – please do NOT pay anything beforehand! (I don’t use this email address on PayPal)
  • Once I receive the deposit, your session will be confirmed

 

Please make sure to BOOK IN ADVANCE. At least 2-3 days’ notice is appreciated.

 

In an unlikely event I have to cancel your session, you will have an option of a full refund or to reschedule – it’s up to you.

If you can’t make your session and contact me at least 2 days in advance, we can reschedule and transfer your deposit (once only!).

If you don’t show up on the day, you lose your deposit.

 

If you have any questions, please drop me an email!

Dice game 2020 style!

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About six years ago I have been introduced to an interesting idea of how to include dice and cards into corporal punishments sessions. The idea quickly became known as a game of change and became rather popular.

Briefly, the concept introduces a bit of an unpredictable gamble where we pick a card or roll a die to determine an implement and the number of strokes.

Over the years I have played a variety of games of chance, both in roleplay scenarios and in sessions without any roleplay. There have been light-hearted play and heavy punishments. There have been soft implements and heavy ones. There have been actual cards and dice, as well as various apps used on phones and tablets. We used the cards and dice to determine not only implement or number of strokes but also the severity, speed and more… I have even introduced additional gambles where you had a opportunity to predict what might come out at a chance of increasing or lessening your punishment.

Well, frankly, I thought I had seen it all!

I was wrong! We all learn new things constantly.

During my last trip to London I have been introduced to a yet different version of it!

 

 

Blank wooden dice allow for an easy and highly customisable option and it was a great fun to play with.

 

If you would like to give it a go you’re welcome to prepare and bring your own dice if you want. I have just ordered some of my own as well, so they will be available soon should the mood strike you on the day.

 

 

 

 

 

Testimonials

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I would like to thank everyone who had provided a testimonial in the last couple of week (and to all those who have done so in the past).

I appreciate you talking time to share your experience with others.

 

It is surprising how the time flies. Looking through the testimonials, and adding new ones, reminded me that I have sessioned with some of you for so many years.

Some things change, others just stay the same. There are new interests, new fantasies and new ideas. There are new premises. But at the end it is the same safe and non-judgemental environment for you to explore and enjoy your fetishes and various BDSM activities and CP.

 

Here is to another year of great adventures and fulfiled fantasies!!!

 

PS. If you would still like to write a short testomonial sharing your experience during our session(s) you are always welcome to do so. There is no deadline and your name will not be published if you don’t want. Any questions just drop me an email.

 

 

BACK IN ACTION in North East

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EXCITING NEWS!!!

Due to ongoing problems with the premises I was due to move into in May I have decided to offer session from a different place on temporary basis.

I have viewed the place today (and it looks amazing!) and am every excited to be back offering session in North East very soon. Those are existing premises I will be hiring per session.

I will update my website with more information, availability and rough location later this week.

Sessions will be possible upon my return from London later this month (23rd July ONWARDS).

I look forward to being back in action and everyone who needs their corporal punishment or BDSM fix will soon be able to get it!!

 

PLEASE NO BOOKINGS OR ENQUIRES until I have finalised the arrangements and updated my website with basic details

 

 

Bamboo canes

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Every CP enthusiast knows that genuine canes, at least as far as British fetish is concerned, are rattan – be that either Dragon cane (rattan soaked in oil) or normal rattan.

But what about other type of canes?

I have recently had some people enquiring about lighter and easier to take varieties such as bamboo canes (empty inside so it stands to reason they would be lighter and most likely easier to take). The primary purpose for these canes is gardening, but I’m sure together we can give them a much more interesting life!

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The bamboo canes do feel lighter than standard rattan canes, but they are less flexible so sadly the lovely swishing noise is greatly reduced.

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I know that those of you who have fetish for authenticity or harsher punishment will not see the appeal of bamboo canes – no worries I’m still very well equipped with traditional canes – but I think they might be an interesting solution for those who find real canes too much or look for a gentler introduction to caning. Hopefully, they will work well as a reasonably authentic substitute in such cases.

They are also seem quite good for bastinado and punishments of other, more sensitive, body parts like thighs, where rattan canes sometimes prove too sharp.

There are different thicknesses available, ranging from about 6mm to 9mm.

Now…who do I try them on?

 

 

1000 strokes with the cane…

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I have always emphasised that a session with me is about your fantasy. It can be a roleplay idea, or no roleplay. Gentle and sensual or harsh and punishing. A schoolboy or a grown up. A pure CP session or BDSM. And so on…

Some of them are quite common, others – quite the opposite.

 

Below you can read one of the recent testimonials I’ve received. It certainly falls into the ‘less common and more unique’ category, which I indulge in with no less passion than I have for some more traditional and old-fashioned roleplays.

 

 

I have just arranged another session with Miss Kami, but for me this one will be more special than usual.

It is nearly 4 years since I first visited Miss Kami. It was soon after she first started sessions in the North, which probably makes me one of her oldest regular Northern clients. Together we have been on quite a journey of discovery, and never once has she disappointed me.

I don’t visit for roleplay, therapy or punishment, but for fun….. Pleasurable, painful, sensual fun.

Over all this time I must have been caned, flogged, paddled, strapped and generally beaten by nearly every implement on her racks. We’ve also played with clamps, pegs and weights, wax and ice, cords and blindfolds, and rolls of the dice. Whilst sometimes we play accuracy games, where Miss Kami tests her skill by landing cane strokes within a small target area, or play implement guessing games whilst blindfolded, mainly our sessions follow no structure. She just allows me to relax and enjoy the sensations her skill and imagination can create.

Invariably in each session Miss Kami finds a new toy or technique for me to experience. Some of these, though initially scary, then become firm favourites. Never once have I regretted trying anything, even the very few I have actually found too challenging.

My main passion though is the cane, particularly cold caning, and Miss Kami always takes pride in leaving me with a set of perfect stripes to enjoy as a reminder of my visit.

This brings me to why our next session is to be so special.  Since visiting Miss Kami I have kept a record of how many proper cane strokes she has given me, and during this coming session I will receive my 1,000th stroke!

I’m sure with 12 canes to choose from, Miss Kami, with her accuracy and wicked imagination, will think of a suitably devilish way to deliver that 1000th stroke. The only thing I can guess though is it won’t be a soft one!

Nick,  2016

 

Now, off plan the celebration!!

 

You can find other testimonial on my Testimonials Page.

 

 

“I think I could have taken more”

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From time to time I hear those words at the end of a session.

I *could* have taken more. I could…

 

The answer is always simple. Yes, you most likely could have. We, humans, can take just about anything if given no choice.

But, would you have enjoyed it?

 

A good session is not about taking every single stroke that one *can* take. Taking every single stroke possible is one in a life time experience that those who tried, never want to repeat it, or worse, never want to play again.

A good session is about an enjoyable experience. Yes, it should push you a little bit, but it shouldn’t shove you right outside of your comfort zone. Yes, it should feel challenging, but not to the point you don’t want to think about it the next day. Yes, intense session is about you wanting to be broken, but only to the point it is possible to put you back together afterwards. Yes, you want your heart beating faster in anticipation, but you don’t want to freak yourself out into a panic attack.

 

Going right to the edge of what one can take is about the best plan I can think of to make sure you don’t want to play again. As a professional mistress, whose somewhat of a life mission is to provide people with safe ways to enjoy their fetish fantasies, this is against my belief.

It is a *good* thing to think afterwards that you could have taken more. That means you are buzzing with the experience, endorphins are flowing and the play was stimulating in just the right way.

 

Obviously, you don’t want a session so far away from feeling pushed or challenged (in one way or another) that it feels like a waste of time. I don’t want that either. I have no reason to hold back for the sake of holding back. My interest is to provide everyone with an unforgettable experience and safe journey of exploration of their fetish interests. I want you to explore your limits, but not to break them.

 

There is, however, sometimes a very good reason why I believe holding back is a good idea.

(Obviously if you don’t want any marks, that’s quite obvious I might not go as far as you might like.)

But apart of such obvious reasons there are others that might call for slightly less heavy play. Fetish play is not just a physical sensation of being in pain, there are also psychological and emotional factors to consider (and to enjoy). If you are new to play it is in your best interests to take it slow enough that you actually enjoy what happens during a session.

 

The more experience you have the safer (and more enjoyable) it is for you to push yourself further. I greatly enjoy intense sessions, when people explore their limits, properly, for the first time ever and when dark fantasies come true. Nothing makes me feel like I’ve done it right than hearing someone say that it was the most intense and remarkable experience ever.

I have often been told that I have taken someone further than they have ever been before but that they have still *enjoyed* every minute of it. Because, it is always about the enjoyment – whatever that ‘enjoyment’ is to a person.

 

I like intense play (whether that is on a psychological level of physical), but please, do not ask me break your limits as I will refuse to engage in this unsafe practice.