New testimonials

I have added 3 new testimonials to the website. More coming soon!

You can read them all here.

 

“(…) Life can be very stressful at times: after a session with Miss Kami I feel mentally lighter, and much more relaxed. (…)”

 

“(…) I have been seeing Miss Kami for a number of years now and have never had a bad experience. Don’t be fooled by her smile once the session begins she is definitely in charge! (…)”

 

“(…) From the very first session Miss Kami made me feel comfortable safe and not judged. (…)”

 

Join me for a safe, consensual and deeply rewarding session,

always tailored to your limits and experience!

 

Electric play

Are you interested in electric play? GREAT!!

 

I have a violet wand (North Eeast ONLY) and a TENS unit (both locations) available for play.

 

Please make sure to mention your interest in electric play when booking the session as I won’t have the gadgets with me if you surprise me with the request on the day!!!

 

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IXU Violet Wand ready for play

While I have been busy in London the IXU Violet Wand has been thoroughly rechecked and IS NOW WAITING AND READY FOR PLAY.

As it is an old (completely rewired) device, it cannot be turned on for long amount of time without shortening its lifetime. Therefore session consisting ONLY of electric play with violet wand will NOT be possible. Play time using this wand is 10-15min followed by 30min break when we can indulge in other type of play.

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Here you can check my previous post about violet wands and their basic use and safety. Violet wands 101

 

SAFETY INORMATION:

Please note I will not, under any circumstances, be using this, or any other, violet wand to brand, burn or cause permanent markings. Please do NOT ask.

 

Just to remind everyone – I will NOT be bringing it to London. I will however be looking to buy (in the next few months) a second violet wand that I will be able to permamently leave in London.

 

 

 

Violet wands 101

 

As promised here is a brief violet wands 101 article explaining how they work without going into too much technical details.

 

Violet wands

Speaking in technical terms a violet wand is a modified Telsa coil-type electrical transformer. In plain words it is an electric apparatus that uses high voltage, low current (low amperage) and high-frequency electricity to provide physical stimulation that can be applied to skin. The electricity is applied in the form of stream of static electrical sparks. It is the low current that makes violet wands a safe choice for electric play in fetish or BDSM setting.

The antique violet wands from early 20th century that are nowadays professionally rewired for fetish play are more correctly referred to as violet rays, however, majority of people still calls them violet wands. I will continue using the term violet wands throughout this post to refer to both.

 

The violet wand apparatus consists of:

  1. a control unit – a box that that has a control dial allowing to increase and decrease output and often a voltage selector allowing wand’s use in America as well as Europe.
  2. a wand – a handheld plastic-encased transformer that supplies the electricity
  3. an electrode – an attachment inserted into the wand that delivers electric spark to the skin

 

The control dial located on the control unit allows for adjustment of output that modulates the sensation from gentle and sensual fizzle or tingle to a painful jolt. Some violet wands allow for a greater range of sensations than others. It is this greatly varying level of sensations and intensity that makes violet wands popular as it caters for a wide variety of tastes – ranging from a very first, gentle and sensual experience to a serious and intense challenge.

Cable joins the control unit with the handheld, about a foot long plastic-encased wand that houses the modified transformer.  On the other end of the wand an electrode of one’s choosing is inserted.

Electrodes come in various shapes. They are what conducts the electricity from the transformer to provide the stimulation to the skin. Each type/shape of electrode allows for different feeling and different type of sensation. Most of the electrodes are hollow glass tubes. It is the properties and shape of the glass tube that modifies and refines the sensation. Generally, the greater the contact surface of the electrode with the skin the milder the sensation.

When connected the electricity passes through gas filled electrode it makes the electrode light up and glow. Most commonly the glass electrodes use inert argon gas and light up purple/violet giving the violet wand its name. Some manufacturers, however, also use different inert gas and make electrodes that light up in different colours, for example orange. It is an aesthetic difference and does not affect the functionality.

The sensation provided by the violet wand can be further modified using different techniques: direct, indirect and reverse violet wand techniques are the three basic techniques that can be used. Direct technique involving direct application of violet wand electrode to the skin is the one used most commonly by majority of players.

 

 

Advice for beginners

Best way to start is a low setting and an electrode with a flat surface like a mushroom to distribute the sensation. If you are nervous this is the best way to reassure yourself that violet wands are not there to give you a dangerous shock but can be so mild and sensuous you can just about feel them.

The violet wand makes a loud buzzing noise when it is connected. It is perfectly normal and nothing to be worried about.

 

Safety note:

Please note that at no point will I be using the violet wand for scarring, branding or with intent to cause any permanent markings. I will also not use it for anything it is not meant to be used or with random attachments you might want to bring with you.

 

1000 strokes with the cane…

 

I have always emphasised that a session with me is about your fantasy. It can be a roleplay idea, or no roleplay. Gentle and sensual or harsh and punishing. A schoolboy or a grown up. A pure CP session or BDSM. And so on…

Some of them are quite common, others – quite the opposite.

 

Below you can read one of the recent testimonials I’ve received. It certainly falls into the ‘less common and more unique’ category, which I indulge in with no less passion than I have for some more traditional and old-fashioned roleplays.

 

 

I have just arranged another session with Miss Kami, but for me this one will be more special than usual.

It is nearly 4 years since I first visited Miss Kami. It was soon after she first started sessions in the North, which probably makes me one of her oldest regular Northern clients. Together we have been on quite a journey of discovery, and never once has she disappointed me.

I don’t visit for roleplay, therapy or punishment, but for fun….. Pleasurable, painful, sensual fun.

Over all this time I must have been caned, flogged, paddled, strapped and generally beaten by nearly every implement on her racks. We’ve also played with clamps, pegs and weights, wax and ice, cords and blindfolds, and rolls of the dice. Whilst sometimes we play accuracy games, where Miss Kami tests her skill by landing cane strokes within a small target area, or play implement guessing games whilst blindfolded, mainly our sessions follow no structure. She just allows me to relax and enjoy the sensations her skill and imagination can create.

Invariably in each session Miss Kami finds a new toy or technique for me to experience. Some of these, though initially scary, then become firm favourites. Never once have I regretted trying anything, even the very few I have actually found too challenging.

My main passion though is the cane, particularly cold caning, and Miss Kami always takes pride in leaving me with a set of perfect stripes to enjoy as a reminder of my visit.

This brings me to why our next session is to be so special.  Since visiting Miss Kami I have kept a record of how many proper cane strokes she has given me, and during this coming session I will receive my 1,000th stroke!

I’m sure with 12 canes to choose from, Miss Kami, with her accuracy and wicked imagination, will think of a suitably devilish way to deliver that 1000th stroke. The only thing I can guess though is it won’t be a soft one!

Nick,  2016

 

Now, off plan the celebration!!

 

You can find other testimonial on my Testimonials Page.