I am a happy owner of a new and amazing whip to add to me collection. And it works amazingly. Thank you for the lovely gift, you know who you are!
Yes, it is a harsh implement. Yes, it gives quite a punch.
No, it is not for a gentle play.
And finally here are some photos of the spreader bar that I had in use for the last few weeks.
In fact it works perfectly, leaving you just enough room to wriggle but no chance of getting free until the time is right. It can be used for punishment scenarios as well as for more sensual play and tie and tease.
The spreader bar is adjustable, it has 6 different rings (3 on each side) to allow me to secure your legs at different widths apart depending on what is needed and possible.