Category: BDSM

Fetish consultations and teaching

Posted on by Miss Kami

 

While I was enjoying my time in Liverpool I have received a couple of interesting emails.

 

One was from a women inquiring whether I could teach her partner how to play with her. She suggested they both come for a session to discuss what they want and their ideas. She wanted me to instruct her husband in safety, use of implements and help him understand how things work. He was apparently very willing to try but with virtually no experience, and she found it had to explain things while ‘being the sub’.

 

The second email was from a man wanting to discuss ‘things’ without any play. He said that he is not sure if he will ever want to play but there are things on his mind he would like to discuss with someone. Taking to a friend was not an option as he needed someone with good understanding of fetish practices.

 

I have seen the couple last week. The session turned out to be a great success, and they have already booked another session for later in May. The man is coming to see me soon.

 

This experience made me wonder if there are more people who might benefit from either just talking about their fantasies, ideas and worries or from being taught how to play with their partners/friends. (Obviously if the session was planned to be just consultation and no play I would modify my rates accordingly.)

 

I’m still thinking about how that might work so if anyone finds themselves potentially being interested in either feel free to drop me an email to express initial interest. I do not want to radically move away from real time sessions that are my passion, but I look forward to being able to make kink and fetish play accessible to people through different means whenever possible.

 

 

 

Please note: I do not have a degree in psychology, nor am I a qualified therapist. I have only basic qualification in counselling (route started but not pursued). What I have is excellent ability to listen, experience and understanding of the subject which I am always willing to share.

 

 

Sounds

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An unexpected Christmas gift! Sometimes it’s definitely better later than never!

 

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Sounds are something I have been thinking about for a while but with many other things going on I have truly considered it.

 

Couple of days ago I have received this lovely gift. The rods have been thoroughly experimented with since then (both on the person who gave me and then on another willing victim). Size range goes from tiny 3mm to impressive 18mm. They are lightweight, smooth and with safely rounded tips.

 

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They are amazing, and provide so many entertaining responses I’m now surprised how I was able to offer CBT without them!

 

All rods are cleaned and sterilised before and after each use. Always.

 

PS. The sounding rods are in my Newcastle venue but can easily be taken down to London – please request in advance.

 

 

New toys – floggers

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And finally the floggers.

A nice set of three different flogger: the small one has 1mm diameter tails while the medium and the big one 1.5mm. I can imagine the small one, being quite light, turning itself more into a CBT implement. The two bigger ones will definitely be put to some good use across the back and the bottom of the next willing victim that comes my way. They do give quite a punch! Just a little warning – as usual, be careful what you wish for!

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The fourth flogger is a little bit of an experiment made of braided flat rubber strings instead. Despite its size (same length as the large blck one), it is lighter then the black ones and therefore less severe when used moderately hard. It can be used safely all over the body and how much that will make you suffer will depend entirely on your behaviour. Gentle mode available only if you behave yourself!

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PS. Those floggers will NOT be available in London unless specifically requested *before* a particular trip. However, I do permanently have in London an equivalent on the small, black flogger. If I find the set popular I will make another one to take down to London.

 

New toys – collars and blindfolds

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Other leather toys and accessories I have crafted out over the last couple of months involve a selection of different collars as well as couple of blindfold.

First I have made dome simple leather collar with a little jingly bell attached. Your mistress will always know when you move.

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And later, some demanding and strict posture collars. Very useful for training and to stop you from looking down and avoiding my gaze.

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Blindfolds guarantee a near complete darkness and most certainly won’t make it possible for you to see anything.

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PS. Yes, some of the collars will be taken down to London.

 

New toys – gags

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I have recently been feeling very crafty and have made a variety of toys to play with.

Sometimes some of you show up with your favourite toys or implements. Sometimes I find interesting things down in the London venue. Generally, however, I like things changed and adjusted so, based of different designs I have seen, and sometimes also played with, I have made some of my own.

I have been working on a selection of different gags; bit gags, ball gags and ring gags.

Different sizes, different shapes (and accidentally also different colours)!

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I also had a go at a harness gag that probably will need further adjusting for a nicer and snugger fit. Anyone volunteering to be a willing victim for testing it out?

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PS. Some of the new toys I will be taking down to London, so yes, they will be available down there as well.

Cage!

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Newest addition. Cage. A lovely gift to add variety to my sessions.

 

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I know some of you expressed interest in being locked in a cage during a session – so the opportunity is now here. The door can be safely padlocked to make sure you are not going anywhere without permission.

(I forgot to check the size of the cage, but for reference, the black tape on the wall behind the cage is 1m wide)

I’m not sure how often it will get used but should it prove popular I will probaby be looking to remove some of the bars to have better access to anyone locked inside.

 

PS. Please note tht the cage is available in my Newcastle Venue only.

PPS. If you would like it included in the session please tell me in advance. The cage will not permanently up. Although it is quick to assemble it still takes time that I’m sure you would rather spend playing.

 

 

Bondage and restraints, anyone?

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As the life time of my old set of cuffs was approaching its end I started looking for a new set. This time I wanted something of a much better quality.

After browsing quite a few websites I finally decided to get a set that I had a pleasure playing with in London.

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5 cuffs (wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs and a matching collar) have now been added to my expanding collection of toys.

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They are very robust and well made – so good news for all those of you who enjoy a little bit of a wriggle here and there. Inside, they are well padded for a snug fit. They can be comfortably used to restrain your hands above your head and force you onto your tiptoes if you are feeling adventurous and brave!

Buckles are lockable with a padlock which I can lead to some interesting play. If you want out – you will have to earn the key first.

Something tells me there is some memorable bondage about to happen in the near future…

 

 

Torture chair

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Same lovely person who made the bench for me about a year ago (no he does not get away with any sort of mischief or inappropriate behaviour because of it) kindly made a very handy addition for it.

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More and more players I see is interested in various forms of CBT and nipple play/torture in addition to (or sometimes instead of) corporal punishment. Until recently the best positions for it when either vertical (standing) or horizontal (on the massage table/floor).

I like the spaciousness of my new premises in North East so did not want to get yet another piece of equipment to clutter it but happily planned adjusting the bench to suit my needs and your fantasies.

Together with wrist cuffs and rope for hands, and ankle cuffs and a spreader bar for feet it can be use as a very effective, so called, torture chair/throne. A collar and a longer piece of rope can be used to stop you from bending forward. More straps/rope can be added when needed.

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Those of you who can’t help a little bit of struggling will be pleased to hear that the back piece is made sturdy. It is also easily removable so bench can be used for its primary purpose any time.

 

The throne was successfully tried and used on couple of occasions over the last couple of weeks and it is ready for more!

 

AVAILABLE IN NEWCASTLE VENUE (London venue has similar facilities – see photos here)

 

Ready to be restraint?

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I have recently added a pair of hooks coming from the ceiling.

For a while I enjoyed (and hope that you did too) the X-shaped restraining possibilities against the wall. Recently I felt the need to restrain you in a position that I can have access to you from all sides.

Fixing a hook through the ceiling sounded like the best option.

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A pair of them allows me to choose whether I want your hands together or separated depending on what is required.

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Please note the hooks are *NOT* for suspension (although could easily hold your weight and more). They do however are very solid, safe and work perfectly!

Second hook had been added (to secure you hand separately). Photos in the Gallery

 

Next stage – spreader bar for even more vulnerable restraining.

 

Play Fantasy – Interrogation

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A bit delayed but here it comes!

This month’s best session fantasy is more a group of fantasies rather than a specific one.

May seemed to be a little bit of a ‘hmmm…interrogation sounds intriguing’ kind of month.

 

I had a number of people inquiring about possible interrogations sessions. Some of you seem to believe in certain myths surrounding the whole subject that seems to be taking potential enjoyment away from you. So here goes few simple demystifying facts.

 

  • Interrogation sessions do NOT have to be severe. Like everything in the CP and BDSM world it can be tailor-made to suit your level of play.
  • It can be either pure CP or BDSM or mix of both.
  • It can have a very deep roleplay with complex story and background or be as simple in nature as any other roleplay.
  • It can be a official, semi-official or a very unofficial setting

 

But what is even more important is that I heard a number of people being put of the idea because they believe the session will end when they ‘give up the information’.

I don’t know how other mistresses run their sessions and it is none of my business. I, personally, see no reason why a session should instantly end once the person being interrogated ‘gives up the information’. There are infinite ways of proceeding once that happened. Infinite.

I hope to shortly post few interrogation session ideas for some inspiration as well as some more practical information if you are interested that will hopefully be useful…