The essence of my kink always was CP. And most likely will be so in the future. It is closer to my heart, and mind, that any other fetish. Though, I certainly did develop a great appreciation for other fetishes and BDSM activities over time.
From the very beginning I was, however, quite firm about keeping my sessions as far away from sexual activities as possible. I always believed that although CP and BDSM sessions are erotic in nature they are not, or at least don’t have to be, sexual in nature.
A number of times I was asked if I allow self-relief and my answer was always yes. At the same time if asked about hand relief I would invariably say no.
Recently, after a number of conversations with some of my regular clients I started reconsidering my decision. Their story of how it works for them made me realise that changing some of my rules will allow others to explore their fetishes and enjoy the play more.
After all, I always advocated that CP and BDSM are about what the participants WANT them to be about.
So, few of months ago I chose to make exceptions for some of my regular clients and allow hand relief. Now, I’m extending that offer to others as well.
Hand relief CAN be a part of session.
Strictly NOT during the following:
- Headmistress, Aunt, Governess-type of roleplays
- Any other roleplay involving you as a school-aged boy
- *Official* punishments in prison or judicial punishments
Also, be aware that in slave/Mistress type of scenes hand relief will only happen if you deserve it and there is absolutely no guarantee.